I can't pinpoint when my interest in history first began, particularly my interest in the history of my family. I do remember as a teenager meeting one of my paternal grandfather's cousins who shared with the work she had done on the James family. By the time that happened, though, I already had the bug for history, particularly English history. I began to wonder what my roots were. Where did the people on both sides of my family come from? I knew some things, but not enough. From the vantage of adulthood, of course I now wish I had talked to my grandparents and gleaned as much as possible from them. But I didn't.
Several years ago I gave myself a membership to Ancestry.com as a birthday present. Slowly I began to enter the information I had and to build a family tree. I discovered that I could build on the work of other members who made their trees public, and that led me down interesting pathways. Of course, you really have to be careful about what you accept and add to your own tree. For example, one tree from a distant relative showed an ancestor, an Englishwoman, born in Kansas in 1450. Um, no. I can't imagine how that happened, and now I know not to trust the information from the person's tree.
On the James side, for the longest time the furthest back we knew was David James, my four-times-great-grandfather, who was born in 1790 in South Carolina. He it was who emigrated westward at some point with his wife and child(ren), first to Georgia, then to Tennessee, and finally to Mississippi where they settled permanently in 1831. Thanks to the work of others (most of which seems reliable) I have been able to dig further into the past. No surprise, really, that the Jameses originated in England... or that they were farmers, generation after generation. The real surprise was that some of them were of the landed gentry in medieval England. At some point I want to go back to England and dig further into local records to verify some of this for myself.
The two family "mysteries" I've discovered both come from my mother's side. My mother's maternal great-grandfather immigrated from Sweden in 1869. As the story came down to me, he came with six brothers, but I have no idea of their names or where they ended up. I knew my grandmother's maiden name was Tunburg. Well, turns out that Andrew Tunburg started out as Anders Johansson or Jonasson. Not sure which. From the research I've done, I understand why he did. I found numerous Anders Johanssons/Jonassons immigrating from Sweden around the same time. I doubt I'll ever be able to go any further with that.
The other mystery involves my mother's paternal roots. Her father's parents lived in Carroll County, Tennessee, and my mother was born there. Her grandmother, Elizabeth Spellings, was the granddaughter of Gideon Spellings, Sr. Thanks to findagrave.com, I found his burial site, along with a portrait of him and a picture of his grave. The interesting thing is that evidently Gideon insisted on being buried by himself (he was married twice; his second wife was the grandmother of Elizabeth), and he apparently said, "I am not fit to be buried with decent people." What on earth had he done in life to cause him to say such a thing?
This is a mystery I would love to solve. Perhaps it had to do with the divorce (he died in 1879), but who knows? Sometimes family mysteries are best left unsolved....
Except in my books, where I love unearthing family secrets that have caused problems in the present day for my characters. I'll have to ponder Gideon's story and see if I can figure out a reason why he insisted on being buried alone...